By Pamela Price
If I tell you that I'm a native Texan who homeschools her kid outside San Antonio, then you may draw a lot of conclusions right away.
For instance, you may think that:
1. I reject both evolutionary theory and the idea of climate change as hogwash.
2. I regard non-native speakers suspiciously and call them all "foreigners."
3. I support the idea of a border fence between Texas and Mexico.
4. I say "y'all" a lot.
Only one of those statements is true. I’ll try now to tip you off to which of the three are incorrect:
We’re striving to provide our Kindergartner with an open-minded world view.
I guess, in a word, that's teaching a child to be "global."
So how does one go about nurturing an appreciation for a wider world and the people in it when the teacher’s desk is the kitchen table?
Well, it's a lot easier than you might think. For starters, we decided to teach Spanish as a second language beginning with Kindergarten. We had other options, of course. We’ve already dabbled in French and Chinese. Latin and Greek are really big among homeschoolers. Yet here in Texas--an hour or so as the crow flies to the border--Spanish is at once accessible, cosmopolitan, and downright friendly.
A few weeks ago my son and I encountered a Mexican gentleman shopping with his family. My son, using his elementary Spanish knowledge, struck up a conversation. It was brief but warm. The man was charmed and my kid was ecstatic that they could converse together one-to-one.
Later in the car my son and I discussed the man's cheerful reaction. We puzzled through how and why we humans like to be "met" with familiar words, especially when we're away from home. We reflected too on how during a recent trip abroad that even the most feeble of attempts at French were greeted with enthusiasm. At the center of the impromptu lesson the notion of "respect" was revealed. We discussed that, too. A rich, post-Target expedition talk resulting from the kind of chat summed up at the front of every college-level Spanish textbook:
¡Hola! ¿Como se llama? Me llamo Pablo.
It was pure gold. A remarkable teachable moment right there on the linoleum next to racks of cheap Missoni textiles.
Eat your heart out, Socrates.
Once one opens that kind of door to the world through language, of course, some new issues may arise over time. For instance, when he's old enough to understand that “border fence” idea, we may have to parse through some heavy issues related to language, race, and nationality. Given that San Antonio proper was founded by Spanish speakers and much of the older architecture reflects Spain more than England, Scotland or Denmark (our ancestors' homelands), I can envision a heart-to-heart about who "decides" who must be kept at bay with that fence. What are the political motivations for the respective parties? Financial incentives? What are the alternatives? How do facts counter stereotypes? Or, for instance, what does the rest of the world fail to understand about the the many otherwise "conservative" landowners along the border who oppose the fence? How and where does language come up short in explaining an individual point-of-view?
Will we use Spanish to discuss these ideas? Maybe. Or we may have moved on to Russian or Italian. In whatever language we use to converse and debate important world matters as our son matures, we'll definitely take into those conversations one of the best lessons learned through the study of a foreign language: Showing respect opens wide one's windows to the world.
Yep, even if one still breaks out with a hearty "y'all" in everyday conversation.
Pamela Price is an award-winning regional journalist and the founder of RedWhiteandGrew.com, where she covers a variety of topics. She can be found on Twitter @redwhiteandgrew and Facebook.


Our respect for each others' differences is the bridge to overcoming them and truly becoming global. Pablo is well on his way to learning and living those lessons. Thanks, Pamela.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Tony.
ReplyDeleteAnd thanks LPP folks for letting me share our story.
I was educated at Duke and Vanderbilt Law, so whenever I encounter "y'all" I smile broadly. Thanks for that. Thanks also for sharing your thoughts on raising a global citizen. We can make a difference in the future we all will share one child at a time. ~ Rana
ReplyDeleteWe considered home schooling. If we ever go that route, we have many friends to network with who are doing the same. They even meet twice a week at a church for common classes. Its a good set up.
ReplyDeleteIt's nice to see such a broad approach to home schooling. ¡Gracias!
ReplyDeleteI know many homeschoolers, religious and secular, and with careful planning, the set-up can be powerful for a child. Tough on the parents though - it's a lot of work, and I really admire parents who do it. I have a friend in high school who homeschooled her two boys, one of whom married a homeschooled woman... but they decided not to homeschool their children. Well, I suspect they do, but after their regular public school programs.
ReplyDeleteLove these responses, Y'ALL. Thanks again to the LPP team for the invitation to share our story and perhaps challenge conventional ideas about homeschooling/homeschoolers.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what I am most impressed with Pamela...home schooling, your approach not only as a teacher but a parent (one in the same), or your detail and insight into life and the meaning of respect. Thank you for this post! On my top 10 list!
ReplyDeleteI admire all parents that take on home schooling. I started my own school due to my own personal disappointment in school systems. All Children Academics supports home schooling and provides social skills groups to integrate home schooled children into social situations with like peers. Keep up the good work mom's and dads!
ReplyDeleteI love the mental image of your son breaking out in Spanish to the surprised Mexican gentleman. What a lucky boy.
ReplyDeletePamela,
ReplyDeleteI was fortunate to learn a second language (French) when I was very young and I must say, I am so very greatful for having that experience and also for learning about the "rest" of the world by traveling....your son is on a wonderful path thus far....you deserve much praise....thank you for sharing your story.
I think "y'all" should be required vernacular, coast to coast. It's just downright folksy and friendly!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Pamela, for your post and global approach to homeschooling. You make it look easy, but I am sure it is an immense undertaking.